You’ve heard the saying, “Acceptance is a small quiet room…” I often wondered the meaning, and I’m sure many people interpret it differently, but for me it means this: Sometimes you put up a good fight, you do your best, and all of your efforts, just won’t matter. Sometimes there is nothing more you can do, but accept that this particular person, or situation, or group, etc. is just going to let you down. And when you finally realize that, and you finally accept it, it feels like you’re standing in a small room that’s quiet and for the moment, you’re all alone.
My poem this morning: I’ve been through a lot of changes but the one thing that’s remained constant: People will let you down. You learn to accept it, and I can laugh when I say it, but the truth is so sad, that even my laugh has a frown….-Amy-
So what can you do? Honestly, when you can do nothing, you can only do what you can. You move on, you go about your way. You try to forgive the person, situation, group, whatever it may be. Not for them, but for yourself. Because holding onto resentment, anger, hatred, it only ends up hurting you. Truth be told, whatever it was that you let you down, probably isn’t even remotely worried about it, hell, they may not even know or care. So for your own sake, you forgive. All we can do is the best we can. I’m not saying you won’t be sad or that you won’t carry a little of the pain in your soul forever, because I’m sure you will, I know I have. But it gets better over time.
You learn to smile, even if your smile wears a slight frown, you still smile. Life’s about doing the best we can for ourselves and by doing that, we are doing what’s ultimately best for everyone else. It’s about making choices, it’s about having to make a few sacrifices along the way, give and take, take and give. But life is good, and the sooner we can accept that we can’t control every situation, we can’t make everyone do the right thing, the more peace you’ll have in your life, I truly believe that.
Love & Peace
Cause I’m not there, but perhaps, Soon Enuff….