Good morning, hope you take this Tuesday and make it beautiful…
So here’s my morning poem, and also my thoughts on the matter of Love or Lust…
“Why do they say, “you’re in lust, not love?” Why is it fantasy and dreaming versus reality and life? I’m not sure about the type of love others are in, or their opinions on the subject, but I can tell you that the one I long for, the person I crave the most, the one I fantasize about during the day and dream about at night, the one I lust after, is also the one I love. Why would you ever settle for anyone that doesn’t make you feel all of the above?”
Ever really thought about it? Why does love tend to get boring after years? Why do we start to take the ones we love for granted, not look at them with the same lust in our eyes as when we first met? I believe it’s because we get in a rut. Often on the part of both partners, we get complacent. We stop worrying so much about how we look for them. When we first met, we would dress up, make sure hair and make up looked good, probably worked out to be in tip top shape for them. We had sex all the time, cause it was exciting and new. And then, we let the days turn into years, life gets complacent, we think everything’s fine, we stop trying to impress the ones we love.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying we have to impress at all times, I’m just saying if you want to keep some spice in your love life, remember what it was like when you first met. Dress up and do your hair and make up, especially on occasion. Buy a sexy nighty, buy some candles, reserve a hotel. Why not keep life fun and keep love interesting and romantic, sexy and you know what, those fantasies you have? Make them a reality….
I know life can get tough, things get in the way, we’re tired, overworked, stressed. If you still have young kids I know you’re frazzled, sometimes the last thing you want at night is someone else grabbing at you, ha. Believe, me I was there at one stage in my life. But from experience, looking back now, I wish someone would have told me how important it is to keep the sex life alive in your love life. Sometimes you just need to breath, relax, let your partner know you’re tired, but that you do want to be with them, let them take the reigns, and let yourself be mindful of just the moment your in. Don’t think about the day or what you have to do tomorrow, just think about how it feels to be being loved at that moment, your body needs it, your mind needs it, and believe me your partner needs it as well. I honestly believe our sex lives are just as important as eating right and exercising, it’s all part of a healthy well rounded life.
Love & peace!
Cause I’m not there yet, but perhaps, Soon Enuff…..